Notice that we already received what we want.
If wanting friendship, accept the friendship already offered. If wanting beauty, regard areas that already hold beauty. If craving power, use the power we already wield.
If we don’t enjoy these amounts, why would we enjoy more?
We can improve our appearance, wealth, or status. We can develop ourselves, deepen relationships, and improve the whole. From experience, which group of behaviors made us happier? So, where might we want to focus?
Small changes snowball into avalanches.