Whatever we believe someone did to us, we did that to ourselves, and to them.
Did they not care for our needs? How did we not care for our needs? Did they overpower us? How did we overpower ourselves?
Better, how can we empower ourselves?
We can give ourselves our dreams, by noticing we already live our dreams. If we don’t want to change, we don’t want change. If we desire change, we can change.