We can receive with a clear conscience. Letting another add value to our life gives them a gift, as improving the energy of another gives us a gift.
We can give what we like when we like, free of expectation. Because in return, we receive what we most enjoy Now: The boost to our own power and joy. Or, feedback from the universe, that we might change how/what we give to increase the likelihood that another will accept our offering.
Others can accept what they choose, as we may give what we choose.